Just a Bit of Advice: Ask Meg 2
I want to start of by saying no I haven't been stuck under a rock for the past however months I've been busy with work stuff and YouTube. But I am back for another Ask Meg as its been my most requested blog. I don't know if I will be able to do weekly blogs but when ever I have he spare time I'm going to try and get some new posts out along with my YouTube videos.
1) I like this boy who is in sixth form and Ive liked him for 2 and a half months now. Last Friday his friends told him and he told me he didn't like me like that and now he wont even talk to me. What should I do?
This is a hard situation to be in and even more so if you have to see him every day. I know you also mentioned in your email to me that he is the first thing you think about wake up and the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and again this is also a tricky situation because he is constantly on your mind. My best advice for you would be to try and keep yourself busy. Maybe try out a new hobby, go out with friends that sort of thing because the more you do the more you wont think of him. I also find that if you plan something say a weekend away somewhere or going to a gig then you will be excited about that and your concentration will be on that trip or day out. I would also try and avoid him as much as you can if you can help it. If you know he hangs out in certain place in school then avoid that place as much as you can. I know its hard now but I've always been a strong believer of everything happens for a reason so maybe it didn't work out with him because something better was waiting round the corner, you never know!
2) What do I do if I get an unwanted present at Christmas?
Obviously Christmas isn't just about the presents but when someone gives you a present that isn't really to your taste it can be quite awkward. I always find it best to just smile anyway and don't forget to thank them because they have still put the effort into getting you a gift so be thankful. What I would suggest is to put the present to good use by giving it to someone else as a birthday present or Christmas present for the next year but make sure you don't give it back to that person. You could also donate it to the children's charity where you give them presents and they make sure a child has at least one present to open on Christmas morning.
3) I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend or had anyone interested in me? Is it my fault?
To start with it is not your fault and you shouldn't think there is anything wrong with you it is just something unfortunate that has happened. I also don't want you think you are the only one because I didn't have a boyfriend till I was 17 either. I think the best thing to do is not go looking for someone and don't over think it because that's when you start to get paranoid and start changing yourself. You never know someone may be interested in you but its just not someone you expected or someone may just pop up out of no where. Like I said in my other answer everything happens for a reason so I wouldn't think to much about it if I were you because I did and that's when the problems and over thinking starts and that's defiantly not what you want.
4) What should I do if I get a last minute invite to a Christmas/ New Years party as in my outfit?
Last minute parties I find are usually the best parties so I would suggest to defiantly go even if you don't think your outfit will be as good as everyone else's. I would say that it doesn't matter what you look like because it really doesn't but we all know that whenever there is a party you always want to look your best. My 3 tops tips would be 1) To have some sort of outfit planned just in case 2) Make sure you are showered and your hair isn't greasy around the dates because otherwise it will take longer to get to the party and 3) try to invite a friend so you can also borrow their clothes.
5) How do I stand out from the other girls so he will start to like me?
I know at this moment in time having a boyfriend may be the most important thing in the world or that because all your friends have one you don't wan to be the last single girl in your group, however one thing you need to remember is never to change the way you are and the way you look just so someone will start to notice you more. Standing out from he crowd doesn't change who you are as a person so just try talking to him instead find out what he likes and dislikes. If you change the way you look he might like the way you look but your personality's could be completely different, he may even have preferred the old you.
6) What can I do if I don't have much money for my best friends Christmas present?
Christmas presents can be hard especially if you are short for money so here are a few ideas you could use;
1. Buy little things and put them together in a hamper because if you pick little things they really like its the thought you've put into it that counts.
2. Start buying presents throughout the year so it wont be a big load on you when it comes to December.
3. Print of photos of you both. You can put these in a box, a frame or a scrap book. Having photos of memories is one of the best presents you can have.
I hope this has helped some of you and if you ever want advice on anything then head over to my social media and message me or email me at everythingmegsy@gmail.com
My links
My twitter: https://twitter.com/EverythingsMegs
Instagram: Megan Smithard
Snapchat: MeganSmithard
1) I like this boy who is in sixth form and Ive liked him for 2 and a half months now. Last Friday his friends told him and he told me he didn't like me like that and now he wont even talk to me. What should I do?
This is a hard situation to be in and even more so if you have to see him every day. I know you also mentioned in your email to me that he is the first thing you think about wake up and the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and again this is also a tricky situation because he is constantly on your mind. My best advice for you would be to try and keep yourself busy. Maybe try out a new hobby, go out with friends that sort of thing because the more you do the more you wont think of him. I also find that if you plan something say a weekend away somewhere or going to a gig then you will be excited about that and your concentration will be on that trip or day out. I would also try and avoid him as much as you can if you can help it. If you know he hangs out in certain place in school then avoid that place as much as you can. I know its hard now but I've always been a strong believer of everything happens for a reason so maybe it didn't work out with him because something better was waiting round the corner, you never know!
2) What do I do if I get an unwanted present at Christmas?
Obviously Christmas isn't just about the presents but when someone gives you a present that isn't really to your taste it can be quite awkward. I always find it best to just smile anyway and don't forget to thank them because they have still put the effort into getting you a gift so be thankful. What I would suggest is to put the present to good use by giving it to someone else as a birthday present or Christmas present for the next year but make sure you don't give it back to that person. You could also donate it to the children's charity where you give them presents and they make sure a child has at least one present to open on Christmas morning.
3) I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend or had anyone interested in me? Is it my fault?
To start with it is not your fault and you shouldn't think there is anything wrong with you it is just something unfortunate that has happened. I also don't want you think you are the only one because I didn't have a boyfriend till I was 17 either. I think the best thing to do is not go looking for someone and don't over think it because that's when you start to get paranoid and start changing yourself. You never know someone may be interested in you but its just not someone you expected or someone may just pop up out of no where. Like I said in my other answer everything happens for a reason so I wouldn't think to much about it if I were you because I did and that's when the problems and over thinking starts and that's defiantly not what you want.
4) What should I do if I get a last minute invite to a Christmas/ New Years party as in my outfit?
Last minute parties I find are usually the best parties so I would suggest to defiantly go even if you don't think your outfit will be as good as everyone else's. I would say that it doesn't matter what you look like because it really doesn't but we all know that whenever there is a party you always want to look your best. My 3 tops tips would be 1) To have some sort of outfit planned just in case 2) Make sure you are showered and your hair isn't greasy around the dates because otherwise it will take longer to get to the party and 3) try to invite a friend so you can also borrow their clothes.
5) How do I stand out from the other girls so he will start to like me?
I know at this moment in time having a boyfriend may be the most important thing in the world or that because all your friends have one you don't wan to be the last single girl in your group, however one thing you need to remember is never to change the way you are and the way you look just so someone will start to notice you more. Standing out from he crowd doesn't change who you are as a person so just try talking to him instead find out what he likes and dislikes. If you change the way you look he might like the way you look but your personality's could be completely different, he may even have preferred the old you.
6) What can I do if I don't have much money for my best friends Christmas present?
Christmas presents can be hard especially if you are short for money so here are a few ideas you could use;
1. Buy little things and put them together in a hamper because if you pick little things they really like its the thought you've put into it that counts.
2. Start buying presents throughout the year so it wont be a big load on you when it comes to December.
3. Print of photos of you both. You can put these in a box, a frame or a scrap book. Having photos of memories is one of the best presents you can have.
I hope this has helped some of you and if you ever want advice on anything then head over to my social media and message me or email me at everythingmegsy@gmail.com
My links
My facebook: https://www.facebook.com/everythingsmegsy
My twitter: https://twitter.com/EverythingsMegs
Instagram: Megan Smithard
Snapchat: MeganSmithard
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